Friday, January 28, 2011

Sometimes...

you just need to dance it out! Do it...no really, try it!

I can't help but smile when I'm dancing. The kids love it too.

So, the next time you need a pick me up, or you're feeling stressed - try dancing it out! Throw on some music & dance...be silly, play and flail around. Your kids won't care what you look like - they'll love to see you play and have fun!

Sunday, January 23, 2011

Sometimes I think about...

what a different mother I'd be if I were just starting my family at this point in my life. Of course, my life at this point wouldn't look the same either. Please know, that I don't wonder this out of being unhappy. It's just strange to think about.

First, I think that no matter how old you are as a parent - there are some pretty universal things that just come with having a baby. Sleep deprivation is hard no matter how mature you are, etc.

Mostly, I think I'd probably have been much more studied in the whole baby thing. I'd probably have had a birth plan and some sort of cool laboring technique all ready to go. I definitely wouldn't have insisted on being induced just because my mother was in town...which of course ended up with me going through 36 hours of laboring hell just to have a C-section (eye roll at my idiocy). I think that if I would have left it up to my body to go into labor when it was ready - I probably would have been a couple of weeks 'over-due', because I think my body just takes a little longer to do the baby growing than the general 40 week model. I also would have been better about exercise while being pregnant (& not ended up gaining an entire 2nd grader), but that could just be wishful thinking. ;-)

On the other hand, I would probably have a harder time going with the flow. I mean, babies don't really give a rip about our plans or expectations, right?! But, that would probably be a lot harder transition in your 30's when you've had so long to be about your self and whatever routine you have created.

I guess it's like dating too. I was talking to a friend who is in the whole dating world and in her 30's and there was a part of me that was also thinking of what a different experience that is than dating in your upper teens or early 20's. I mean, by your 30's you know who you are & what you want. You (hopefully) aren't looking for someone to tell you who you are, like you do when you are younger (I did anyways). I don't know - there's something kind of refreshing about that...skipping the mind games & really communicating. Then again, I know that comes with it's own set of issues or baggage too. So, I don't know.

I guess in the end, I still come to the same place - be happy with your own path. All the bends in the road, potholes and scenic routes have made us who we are. Hindsight is always 20/20, but that's always going to be true. Live, learn and keep moving forward. God is good. He loves us enough to keep taking us around the same block until we really learn the lessons that we need to. And He loves us right where we're at. That in itself is a relief.

Thursday, January 20, 2011

Advice on lice...

I know the pavlovian response that we all have to the mere mention of lice - so go ahead and itch.


Now that we've gotten that out of the way - I wanted to pass on some REALLY helpful information about this nasty topic. First, it happens to the very best of us. It sucks and has been known to drive this mother to tears and question whether it might just be easier to burn the house down than freakishly clean every crevice of the house.


This is one topic that 'What to Expect When You're Expecting' and all the other parent preparation books fail to mention. So, while I always have loads of bandaids, neosporin, cough syrup, tylenol and vicks vapor rub on hand…I was still left utterly unprepared to deal with lice.


SO, the following is a lice crash course of sorts. My hope is that it will help someone else NOT have to go through the absolute hell that we did.


This is an important tool for your parenting backpack that I highly recommend:

http://www.amazon.com/Terminator-Professional-Stainless-Treatment-Removes/dp/B000HIBPV8


If you don't already have one - buy one today! It's less than $10.



To check your child (or yourself) for lice:


1. Boil some water & pour into a white bowl.

2. Wet the hair down completely & comb/brush it out so completely untangled.

2. Section your hair off into 4 to 6 sections

3. Take the lice comb starting at the scalp & comb through the hair shaft all the way to the end.

4. After each swipe through the hair - rinse the lice comb in the boiling water. This is the easiest way to see the lice at all stages & distinguish between dandruff & nits. Dandruff is white or clear in the water & will float at the top of the water (it also will flake right off of dry hair while nits do NOT.) Rinsing the lice comb in the boiling water is also to ensure that you don't comb any lice right back into the hair.

5. Comb each section of hair: North to south, East to west, south to north, and west to east…especially if you DO find lice - you want to be extremely thorough in combing out as much as possible asap.


If you DO find lice - here are some things to know:


1. The lice shampoos don't work anymore. The lice are becoming immune, so don't bother wasting your money on it.

2. Let people know that you have discovered it…it is the only way to try to end the cycle.

3. There are 3 methods that I know work (from personal experience):

a. The 21 day comb out program: http://www.microscopy-uk.org.uk/theliceprogram/theprogram.html

b. A treatment by the Lice Clinic (if you are so lucky to have this service available in your area): http://www.theliceclinic.net

c. Shaving your head...if you have no hair - the lice have no where to live. End of problem. I was not willing to do this (though I DID actually consider it heavily for a few minutes). This was a no-brainer with our boys though...thankfully. It cut our lice problem instantly in half.

4. 35 minutes in the dryer will kill lice - so throw all blankets, pillows, coats, hats, scarves, stuffed animals, etc in the dryer. You can throw all combs or hair things into a bowl & pour boiling water over them & soak for at least 5 minutes.

5. Freezing items for 48 hours will also kill any lice...so if it's below freezing outside - you can toss items outside or small items can also go in the freezer (like wool items that you don't want to dry in the dryer, et).

6. LIce want to live on the head…they cannot live off of the head for longer than 48 hours - so if you have cloth covered couches - vacuum them. Then I recommend you cover them with a sheet for a few days (just in case) and call it good.

7. We created a quarantine area in our house for things like throw pillows, etc. Once we dried them, we kept them in the quarantined area until we were sure that we were lice free. That way I didn't have to keep cleaning the same things over & over & over again.


Lice Prevention:


1. We have our daughter wear her hair up while she's at school.

2. No sharing combs or brushes - even in the family.

3. We do a lice comb comb-out after every bath time…so that we can catch anything early before it's a problem. And most of all - for peace of mind. :-)


Tuesday, January 11, 2011

Pictures of this Christmas & beyond...

Opening their big present...a Wii!!
Making Christmas Cookies...


The kids were all in a hip hop dance at church...super cute!

Ultimate Nerf wars:




In looking through the few pictures we have from this Christmas season, I realize that I really need to step up my game in the photography department. Kind of slim pickin's...

Oh well, it was a great holiday season and I am SO grateful!

Monday, January 10, 2011

Whoosh! 2011...

has already been here for 10 days now & I'm exhausted!

My brother Stephen came into town with his girlfriend for a week long visit. It was wonderful to spend time with him (them), but completely draining too. I will have pictures to post shortly, but for now - I will just say that it was fun & great & now I am pooped.